I finished my French Toast, topped off my coffee, and put the dishes in the sink. I stayed in my slippers and Adidas sweat pants. I checked my email. Editorial Staff , the subject read, Thank you for sending……, I paused before clicking onto it to read the rest. Probably another rejection, one of the many I had received that week from literary magazine I had submitted to. They all start the same, Thank you for sending…., and then the rejection. I had two others emails in the in box, a Facebook invite, and one message from Helen, who sends out The Actors Studio updates. Get it over with and read the one from Editorial Staff first. I clicked onto it, and it read. Thank you for sending us FACELIFTS AND CIGARETTES. We would like to publish it in 34thParallel. There are a few things we ask you to do next.
A chill spread across my shoulders and my face went luke warm. I leaned towards my computer screen. Then, I don’t know why, probably from all the rejections, I had a moment of doubt, until I read the rest of the email. I laughed and shook my head in both shock and disbelief. I did it! On Thursdays April 29, 2010 I became a professional writer. A day I will never forget.
That day I continued to smile and shake my head. On occasion, when I was alone, I would let out a short laugh that was somewhere between the sound of joy and incredible-if incredible has a sound. I didn’t think it would be such a big deal; my life really hadn’t changed, I went to the gym, wondered what my next audition would be, and that night would go to my night job. Working the door at a hip restaurant bar.
I remembered what F. Scott Fitzgerald said about getting his first story published-not that I’m remotely in the same league-but the feelings are the same. He said something to the effect that the line between the amateur and professional is vast. Intellectually I understood this, but emotionally I was clueless. I’ve always felt that you never move forward in life until you emotionally comprehend what it is you are trying to overcome. Until you “Get it,” as they say. On April 29th, 2010 after the chills had gone from my shoulders, I felt as though I had “Got it.” I had taken one giant leap across a divide I would never stand on the other of side again. I’m sure all writers must feel this, when it happens for them. That’s what else Fitzgerald said about that change happening; that inside of you, you never return to where you were.
I deleted the Facebook invite, and after reading The Actors Studio update deleted that too. I read where Fitzgerald, like so many writers, pinned all of their rejection slips from editors on their refrigerator. Mine were in my trash folder and some deleted forever. I keep the one from 34thParallel in my in box.